Saturday, January 5, 2008

Counselling


WE[individual genetic make-up]PERCEIVE THINGS FROM A RELATIVE POINT OF VIEW[OUR VIEW] ,WHICH IS A SUM TOTAL OF OUR CONSCIOUSNESS.
AND THE CONTENT OF OUR CONSCIOUSNESS IS OUR UPBRINGING,OUR SOCIAL AND CULTURAL MILEU,OUR KNOWLEDGE AND MEMORY AND OUR GENETIC MAKE -UP


A GOOD COUNSELLOR IS ONE WHO TRIES TO SHOW YOU DIFFERENT POINT OF VIEWS
A BETTER COUNSELLOR IS ONE WHO SHOWS YOU 'THE ABSOLUTE' POINT OF VIEW
the most important thing one may realize is that,"one is not ,the captain of his ship".all in the genes-
Latest scientific studies and researches have proved that genes play most prominent role in deciding the physical,mental ,'spiritual' and behavioral constitution of a person.
Even faith is hardwired into our genes.Human beings bear a gene which predisposes them to be religious and experience mystical or spiritual experiences.
The neurotransmitters are behind one co-relating with a particular personality trait.So its the break down of these neurotransmitters ,which is brought about by genes ,which makes one aspire for salvation, or one being an atheist or a rationalist!
So whatever one is,whatever ones inclination are, whatever one perceives oneself as or aspires to be is all because of one's genetic make-up!

Free will/Determinisms
Latest evidence from brain researches reveal that we mostly use our reptilian and mammalian brain than our human brain, which is left to justify and rationalize the
instinctive and reactive behavior of other two brains[brain can be divided into three parts]
Our "freedom of action" is governed by our fundamental biochemical make-up.
so, it sounds unfortunate , but that is how it is-we are not free!
our belief in free will is also determined!
Each of us is shackled from birth to a genetically determined future,bound by the chains of the D.NA double helix!
.The conditioning to a lesser extent then shapes us on the back-ground of our personalities or biochemical make-up.we are made to conform to the
values of the society into which we are born through our upbringings and
the influence of geological,cultural and political forces around us.
Biologist maintain that all moods and emotions are closely associated with certain chemicalsThis organism 'man' is so mechanistic that one's ego ceases to accept this as accepting this is a threat to its existence .
And freedom thus is only another notion or word with no significance!



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AS LONG AS ONE STRIVES TO CHANGE ONE SELF FUNDAMENTALLY,ONE CANNOT CHANGE !

There is a constant struggle and duality in trying to change oneself from what one is in present to what one wants to become in future" A constant fight between two divisions of one singular mind.One thought trying to suppress or curb the other, eventually leading to misery and frustration.
SELFISH TO THE CORE-
The one special,unique and unfortunate feature which differentiates man from the rest of the living forms is the"ego" or "I",and the man keeps on nurturing and strengthening this self-image for the rest of "his life" with his growing experiences .With the formation of this ego or a new referral point, the absolute
becomes relative.And everything is perceived by this center and all the perception is subjected to the content of this image which is a sum total of experiences and memory of the"individual".With formation of the ego at a young age,future life will be seen through one's particular pair of glasses!!!!!!!!!!
And here starts the division ---ME AND YOU. Life,which simply is ,becomes "my life"
All the actions originate from this center ,and thus man can not help being selfish! Everything,including all the"selfless activities " and "charitable deeds" are self centered!